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Thank you for bumping this. I needed this right now as I am dealing with a few n-ish type people at work and fighting to stay sane.

This gives me insight into the balance I need to achieve. Thank you!
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Wow, I did not know that I was doing this, acting like the N in his influence but now know that I am. Even the slightest N trait and that person is history.

BUT, I am still very much in the beginning stages of getting the N goo off me and until I am safe and out I do not want or need to deal with any more. These people have room in my life later, or maybe not, I will decide. I put myself in charge of that. I will be discerning to know what is best for me and what is consistently black or white.

It is nice to be aware and to learn more about the recovery side of this. I can see the other side!!! Does this mean that the FOG is lifting??

thank you L for your beautiful writing
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great post! I will need to read it a lot of times.
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AD thank you for bumping this! Very good article! Think yesterday in my "concerned" post I was doing the black/white thinking thing. It is nice that here pp recognize it and post needed information!
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