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Looking for a Family


I don't have a family of my own. I don't have children and marriage is a remote prospect. Families, to me, are hotbeds of misery, breeding grounds of pain and scenes of violence and hate. I do not wish to create my own.

Even as adolescent I was looking for another family. Social workers offered to find foster families. I spent my vacations begging Kibbutzim to accept me as an underage member. It pained my parents and my mother expressed her agony the only way she knew how - by abusing me physically and psychologically. I threatened to have her committed. It was not a nice place, our family. But in its thwarted way, it was the only place. It had the warmth of a familiar disease.

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Re: Looking for a Family


 Hello Sam,

 Can you open your heart just a bit? Maybe there is someone who admires you and wants to come closer. Even you have to let go and by leting go have space for something or someone new.
 
See, I am ESTJ , the Briggs - Mayer thing , and my hubby of 7 years is INFP , total opposites, nothing I would have looked on [sign in to see URL] writes with ease, and well, not exceptionally well like you, and me, well, I am practical , and get to cook him all I want, reminder of old Austro -Hungarian kitchen.

With respest, Zlata

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