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Re: From the archives: "Ten Steps Out"


Great post.

Its reasuring to know that the insane traits I took on have gone and should be gone for good even after 16 yrs of it.

Dealing with her insanity made me insane. I have returned to normality. I am me once more.

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Thanks for rediscovering this. Excellent insights. :clap:

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Thanks Lyn for posting this and Thanks A/F for bumping it
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Wow! Thank you so much for posting this. It's very enlightening and so true!

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This has to be the most amazing explanation of these dynamics I've ever read (and I've read a lot!) Thanks!!!
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[sign in to see URL] for bumping this up! I will probally read that a few more [sign in to see URL] [sign in to see URL]'m gonna save that! emoticon
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"Here is the Passive-Aggressive's message: In order to exist, I must feel in control, and I will lose my control if I become angry. In order to feel in control, it helps me to see the contrast of how out of control you are. So the easiest way to know I am in control of myself, is when I see that you are out of control. When you are angry, I feel much more in control than you are, and that is how I know I am safe. "

This was the xnhabuser to a T. He also said that he was afraid that if he ever lost control of himself, it would be very very bad. (his words)

I saw him out of control only a few times. One, he tried to throw me off a balcony 3 floors up. The kids stopped him.

Second, he threw a chair through a plate glass window because I left a lamp on in our bedroom while I ran out to another room to do something for a minute.

Another, he missed a shot in tennis and beat is own legs until they were bruised and bleeding. This was in a fun match with a friend of his.

Boy, amd I glad to be away from that mess.

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The Ex-N was a delightful combo of Passive aggressive, N and P!

Sometimes I don't know how I survived.

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