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The Calculus of Happiness


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The Calculus of Happiness

Answer these questions before you make life altering decisions:

1. Are the pursuit and fulfillment of my happiness detrimental to the happiness of my significant others?

If the answer to the question 1 is YES, proceed to question 2:

2. Am I willing to sacrifice my happiness to safeguard the happiness of my significant others?

If the answer to the question 2 is YES, proceed to question 3:

3. Will sacrificing my happiness guarantee the short-term happiness of my significant others?

If the answer to the question 3 is YES, proceed to question 4:

4. Will sacrificing my happiness guarantee the long-term happiness of my significant others?

If the answer to the question 4 is YES, proceed to question 5:

5. Am I willing to sacrifice my happiness to safeguard only the short-term happiness of my significant others?

If the answer to the question 5 is NO, revisit question 2 and revise your response to NO.


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