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Re: No Contact and N-Dipping


Thank you Lynn for the line NC is a state of mind. It has taken me 5 years to finally let this concept into my soul...
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Lynn,

You always have a wise and nurturing way of putting things.
Thank you so much for this valuable information.

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Lynn,
Thanks so much for posting this...
I have been NC for almost 13 months now...
And, until I went [sign in to see URL] is when I can say is when I began to REALLY heal. I had come to realize that my emotional health, what little I had left of [sign in to see URL] never improve if he was still in my life.
I've had my ups and downs, but as each day passed I was thinking clearer, crying less, and feeling more confident.
When those first NC steps are taken, it can be agonizingly [sign in to see URL] like an addictive [sign in to see URL], I quickly accepted it was the best thing for me...
I will always be thankful to you, and the members for giving me the knowledge, and instilling in me the determination to do the only thing that I could do for myself in detaching from my abusive [sign in to see URL] that was to go TOTAL NC!!!!

THANKS!!!
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Thankyou for this important reminder Lynn. SRPxx
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Re: No Contact and N-Dipping


Thanks for bumping this thread Lynn, xoxo

...feels so strange reading that reply I posted, 2 months ago. Now I'm 5 months NC.

I didn't dip, but exn found my number somehow and hoovered. It caused destruction just to listen to the phone message. Maybe it kind of was [sign in to see URL] listened to the message.

It's never any different. It's not a matter of if they're going to bring pain, but when.

xoxox Nikita

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bumping this back up!
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I didn't know about [sign in to see URL] I had still been checking his limited fb profile even though i had taken him off and had noticed photos of us and it put all types of thoughts in my [sign in to see URL] had also heard from a friend of his re his business but i thought to myself does this really help me? it probably hurts me more to know that he still has photos of us on his fb profile or to know what's happening with his [sign in to see URL] since i read about n-dipping and more info on NC i've stopped looking at his fb profile and don't want to talk to his friend anymore and i'll have to stop looking at his friends profiles too or possibly eliminate them..

i hope to be feeling better and better asap..

I like what you wrote Cinder..
'I will heal--N never will'
Dec/22/2009, 3:59 am Link to this post  
 
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