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My ex Ns birthday is coming up and am making it a point NOT to text him. (I know he expects me to). I will feel so good when I manage to keep NC on this day! I know I can do it?!
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its this filling realy is goind to end one day ? why i do i feel this way after ikwon what i know ? iknow nc its the only way but why i keep thinking about the good times?
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I just realized something. This man (ex N) lives not even three miles away and I have never even once driven by his house since we broke up. I had to applaud myself. =)
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Good going, Fern!! I think getting past that desire to N-dip is HUGE! I know I dipped a lot, even after going full NC. I just had to see what he was saying on dating sites and what not. :sick: I'm finally past that dipping crap and I think that is the final stage to getting to indifferent. Am I there yet? [sign in to see URL] still care about him. But it gets closer every day.
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Thank You Florida one! =)
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OMG. Thank goodness I bookmarked this site three months ago while in the depths of hell and depression brought on by WTSP -- that is: White Trash SocioPath -- my best girlfriend came up with that acronym and, she's so right.

I posted rules of no contact on my desk -- i work with WTSP -- was able to stick to them for quite some time. [sign in to see URL] i am. writing this post, i guess, to exorcise some of the shame of wanting to be with him KNOWING FULL WELL HOW EVIL he is. NO CONTACT, no contact, no contact. No ConTacT!?

help. he is everyone's favorite, charming, handsome, [sign in to see URL] one at work knows we were together for six months, though they saw me go through hell, never knowing he was the other end of it. quite a conundrum that all my peers know and "love" him and I hated/hate/love him. help
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Bride,
since you work with creep.. there's no easy answer except to limit contact as much as you can.. Try this link.. it has good information on boundaries.

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Ugh, it hit me a bit ago, while reading this forum, why last night was so rough! At least part of it. I've been N dipping! Some of it has been inadvertent but I fixed those issues right after I realized it and will work on the others over the next couple of days. Some of it wasn't so inadvertent but now that I know what comes from it, I have to stop. Period. I've done so well until last night and now I know what caused most of the angst.

Be strong, Peace, be strong! <---me talking to myself emoticon

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"No contact doesn't open up the gates of heaven and let you in, it opens up the gates of hell and lets you out." <---hopefully reading my own future!<---yes, it WAS and IS my future!
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