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Thank you so much Lynn for this post I have often questioned many things about myself when XN tried to project all of this onto me.I almost believed I was evil and crazy at one stage due to his manipulating mind [sign in to see URL] took me a long time to believe and come to the realization that he is what he is and nothing I could have said or done could make a difference there is comfort for me to finally acknowledge that.
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I too have been driven so crazy by the behaviour of the N that i have exploded and raged at him. Usually after a drink which i had taken to relax. Of course it was always my fault and i was left to do the [sign in to see URL] usually discarded me for a short time and I was left to do the running. There was even violence one night and his glasses got broken, I was so sorry and convinced that it was my fault I paid for a new pair.
You know I CAN HAVE A DRINK NOW AND NEVER FEEL THE SLIGHTEST AMOUNT OF AGGRESSION? i USED TO BE SO WOUND UP BY HIM ,SO [sign in to see URL] just could not talk to him about anything in the end. Even who was going to cook tea became an issue and if I did it he would stand over me interfering telling me how I had made the gravy wrong or not cooked something properly. I had raised two kids well enough on my cooking over 23yrs of being married!
Constantly being on the hop, never knowing what was going to happen next, what was or not expected of me to prevent his silence or rages, being dissarmed at odd moments with fake loving kindness that was designed for him to get his own way (usually sexually) When I felt after that I had yet again been conned...
The cold manipulative side of him using people, usually with money to get just what he wanted yet always looking like the good [sign in to see URL] was nausious...
I just simply thought that I was going [sign in to see URL] dream of living happily ever after with the man I adored and loved was a [sign in to see URL] can't believe that I let this happen to [sign in to see URL], loving,caring, kind intelligent assertive capable hard working talented [sign in to see URL] rolled over and he walked all over me and out the [sign in to see URL] could not control it, I could not control [sign in to see URL] stupidly thought that I was the only person on Earth that understood [sign in to see URL] an idiot I have been...

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